Ruin

Ruin is the next Société Anonyme play party — an evening of kink, art, music, performance, and exploration in a large private Brooklyn loft.

The space will be outfitted with BDSM furniture and generous play areas, with art, music, and performances throughout the night. Expect a thoughtful crowd of kink practitioners who value curiosity, communication, awareness, and respect.

Some members arrive knowing exactly what they want. Others are still exploring. Both are welcome. Play, watch, connect, explore, or simply take it all in.

Like all Société play events, Ruin is for approved members only. Every guest must have their own membership; there are no unapproved +1s. Questions? societeanonyme.nyc@gmail.com

NEW! We now require that MEMBER CODES be included at checkout for each ticket purchased. If you do not know your code or have any questions about this, please email us - societeanonyme.nyc@gmail.com

Bar

The bar is on us, with cocktails, non-alcoholic options, simple mixed drinks, beer, and wine. No BYOB necessary, but you may if you like. 

Attire

Dress with intention. Fetish wear, lingerie, latex, leather, lace, tailoring, semi-formal looks, and more creative interpretations are all welcome. Black, red, and white are always a safe place to start. For more inspiration, checkout our Ruin moodboard

👁️ Wear Your Pin!

Your black and gold Société Anonyme eye pin is your key to entry. Please wear it or bring it with you. New members and members attending their first event will have a pin waiting at the door. Lost yours? Replacements can be purchased with your ticket and picked up when you arrive.

Location

The exact address will be shared with ticket holders. In the meantime, plan to join us at a large private loft in Sunset Park, Brooklyn. D/N/R to 36th Street is a 5 block walk from the location. If you know, you know. Please respect everyone’s privacy and do not share the location outside of Société.

Consent

Ruin is an ask-first event. Consent is expected at all times and will be strictly enforced. Members who disregard another person’s boundaries may have their membership revoked.

EQUITY PRICING We offer special pricing for members of the SW and BIPOC communities. Email societeanonyme.nyc@gmail.com for a discount code.

Volunteers

Want to help make Ruin happen? We offer complimentary admission to a small group of volunteers in exchange for helping us throughout the evening. Email Beatrix at beatrix@societeanonyme.nyc to join the volunteer list.

Accessibility

The space has an elevator and is fully accessible. If you need assistance or have accessibility questions, emailsocieteanonyme.nyc@gmail.com.

Refunds

Can’t make it? Email societeanonyme.nyc@gmail.com as soon as possible. We’ll review your situation and, in most cases, allow you to apply your ticket toward a future event. We do not offer refunds, only deferrals for use at a later event.